Wednesday, January 14, 2015
From One Hood to Another (7 January 2015)
Hello
all :)! This has been a great week! I'm being transferred out of Yonkers!
I am
leaving Yonkers and going to Kingsbridge in The Bronx (which borders Yonker). I
have been to this area before but it is different when you serve there. My
companion will be Elder Hausenfluck who will be ending his mission in
three cycles. Everyone has been telling me they are very jealous that I get to
serve with him because he is so great! He has a gym membership card and he has
a membership where he can get someone else in free anytime he goes. My
companion (Elder Segura) had him as a companion and he said he is great!
He loves playing basketball too. We are both super excited and I can't wait to
go to the gym every day now. Sometimes I really miss exercising. I have never
realized how much it helps myself function until I've been on the mission and
exercising is not available like it was before the mission. I'm very excited to
serve with my new companion. We are going to live with two other Spanish elders.
Both are awesome! And guess what? I'm going to be living
with Elder Lyons again (my MTC companion)! This is going to be a
great cycle. It's going to be difficult, but I'm up for the challenge.
Last
preparation day was a great day. Elder Palmer (my now old district
leader), Elder Hincapie, Elder Segura and I all went to the Sleepy
Hollow Seminary. It was a really cool experience seeing gravestones from the
1700's. After that, we brought Elder Palmer to the mission home
(he was going home the following day), and then we went back to the church in
Scarsdale and ended up playing basketball. Some of the missionaries were
outside playing soccer with some non-members and invited them in to play
basketball. They all played on their varsity team so it was really fun to
actually play basketball again against some good competition.
I
don't have much time today because I need to get everything ready before transfers.
Don't wait to change. Start today. Life goes by quickly and you don't want to
wait until the day that you are dying to decide to live.
This
week has been great. I will let you know how the new area is.
With
love,
Elder Celaya
Thursday, January 1, 2015
Happy 2015 family!! (1 January 2015)
This week has been a
great week here. Our stake president has sent us on a little mission, along
with every other missionary that is serving in our zone. He is calling it the
"Search & Rescue," which is where we are supposed to go out and
find all the less-active young adults that have ever been on the church records
in our area, and find their status (have they moved, if so, what is their new
address, if they haven't moved, are they still interested in the church, and
then update the list, and give it back to the stake president). It has been
quite an interesting experience, but I enjoy it. It is fun because we go all
over Yonkers, and we knock on all these different doors and you never know what
you are going to get behind each door - I love that feeling now. It used to
scare me (knocking on random people’s doors), but now I enjoy it. That is one
thing I didn't know we did to the extent we do it (tracting) on the mission. We
tract a lot and do a lot of lookups. We were trying to find one person from the
search and rescue list and I knocked on the door, and this guy behind the door
said "quien es?" which means "who is it?" in Spanish. We told
him we were the missionaries and he went and got a lady to come talk to us. We
talked for little over a minute and then she asked who we were, and then all of
a sudden there was a pause...then she said to me "Um I'm sorry but
nobody....is here to talk to you....right now." I looked at Elder Segura
and he started busting up laughing and I had to remember at that moment that
that lady was a daughter of God, because my natural man within was telling me
to talk back. Haha so I stood there for 10 seconds trying to regain my composure and said, "Alright, well you have a wonderful night!" and then we
walked away and Elder Segura was laughing at me because right before this
occasion, we went to go look up another less active. So on all of these
apartments, there are two doors. You walk into the first door and then on the
wall there usually is a call box, and you have to get buzzed in to get into the
second door. So, Elder Segura pressed the person’s number, and a lady answered,
and we told her who we were looking for. We gave her the first name, and she
said she had no idea who that was, and then we told her the last name, and she
randomly decided to tell us that it was her son. So we asked if he was home,
and she said yes, and said she was going to go get him so we could talk to him.
So Elder Segura asked if it was him, and he said "yeah that is me,"
and then once he asked who we were, and we told him we were the missionaries,
he said that the guy we were looking for didn't live there, and he starting
saying that he has no idea who we were talking about, and then hung up on us.
The whole time Elder Segura was trying to keep it cool, but after he hung up on
him, he started yelling at the call box in his heavy Spanish European accent.
He was very angry and I made fun of him for it. Haha. So of course I got that
out right back in my face the next door we knocked. This is why this is
fun, because you never know what you are going to get. You have to have a light
heart about it or else you will take everything offensive. That is one thing
that truly is amazing about a mission, is that you learn how to not take
offense to things when you are rejected in any way. You just keep on moving and
try to figure out a better way to do the work. Perhaps that will be a good
business skill one day and in relationships.
Christmas Eve: For
Christmas Eve, we went to South Manhattan and spent the day in the city. It was
pretty packed, but unfortunately it was raining a lot. We took the subways down
(that is always an experience in itself), and then went to wall street, and
walked all the way up, seeing different things and touring the city. It was a
really fun day. I will attach some photos. We then went to one of my favorite
families (the Osorio’s) homes for dinner. We had a big Christmas Eve Dominican
dinner which was fun. I am still not too keen on Dominican food. But hey, it's
a lot better than what I was eating the first month of my mission (only Raman
noodles). Haha.
Christmas: Christmas
was actually really fun. It was one of the most fun days in my mission. We went
to the church and played basketball with our entire district. We played for a
long time and we would take breaks when people needed to Skype their family.
Speaking of skyping, it was awesome to see my family again. One thing that was
extremely weird is that I feel like my entire world has changed SO much within
the last 6 months, and because of that, I have changed as well. I am not the same
person I was when I left for my mission. It felt so weird skyping my family
because it felt like home - it felt like I just walked back in my house and I
was only gone for a day. It was just like normal, but I feel like a different
person - an enhanced version of myself. It feels like I have left earth, and I
just got to go back to earth for an hour and everything was still the same. It
really was a comforting feeling. It was so fun talking with you guys and seeing
your faces.
Brandon: Veronica
ended up breaking up with Brandon because she is leaving on her mission this
month. We have not been able to meet with Brandon, and we don't know if it’s
just because he has been busy, or if he relates it to Veronica and therefore
wants nothing to do with her right now, so he doesn't want to meet with us. I
know he wasn't just meeting with us for her, because I personally saw and felt
how he was changing. I saw the spirit working in him and in his life. I saw his
countenance change. That is something that is very interesting to see as a
missionary. You can literally see a new light come into the person when they
start to change their life. It is like they completely turn into a new person.
You can also see, when someone has then decided to not want to change any
longer and follow the gospel, you can see the light in them leave, and you can
see they are trying to ignore what they deep down in their hearts know to be
true. It is a very sad thing, but it is so easy to see in people. I just wish
they could see it in themselves. Anyways, we aren't sure what will end up
happening with Brandon. We love him and he is an amazing guy, so hopefully he
can value the change he has seen in his life so much so that he will want to meet
with us again.
Roy: We feel as if Roy
is holding onto his past, and because of that, he cannot see the hope of his
future, and because of that, it is holding him back from progressing. We have
had a couple of lessons with him, teaching him about eternal families, temples,
and what priesthood is, and they were great lessons, but we feel as if half of
his heart is still stuck in the past. We are going to meet with him Friday and
teach about disconnecting himself from the past, and aligning himself with the
gospel so he can continue to progress.
Dominican Family: We
went on a split the other week with our zone leaders, and during this time,
Elder Segura and Elder Gore (our awesome zone leader) tracked into this
Dominican family. They are awesome! The dad is super interested and his wife
only has three months here in America. Somehow he lost his eye in the DR, but
he is an amazing guy. I was on a split with Elder Palmer (my district leader),
and we taught them the Plan of Salvation. Elder Palmer is such an amazing
teacher, and he truly has inspired me to buckle down and learn Spanish. One
thing I have noticed the longer I have been on my mission and the more Spanish
I learn, the more I realize I don't know. I still have trouble teaching in
Spanish, but I am forcing myself to learn, day by day. We are going to go back Saturday to
teach them. They are awesome.
Julian: Julian is a
guy that the sisters found. He is currently going to medical school and is
working three jobs to pay for school. We had a pass off lesson with them and
the sisters, and he is by far the most amazing guy I have been able to be
blessed to teach. He is such a nice, deep thinking, and genuine person. He has
such a strong and positive desire to know more about truth. He is not from Yonkers
(he is from upstate), but he is here for medical school. I have never met
someone so ready for the gospel. He is one of the most positive, easy to get along
with, people I have met. We taught him the Restoration with the sisters,
and there was such an amazing spirit there. I have yet to feel the spirit so
strong teaching someone in a lesson. It's during those times when you say to
yourself, there is absolutely no way this can't be true, because I have never
felt anything this peaceful and exciting in my life. It's during those times I
feel as if we get a little peek of what Heaven will be like. I am super excited
to see what happens with him, because he has been prepared.
We had President come
into our zone meeting this week, and he surprised us and talked about a
principle that has really affected and inspired me. He talked about becoming
ONE with Christ and his gospel. He talked about John 15 in the bible. Read it
slowly. It will change your life. In John 15, Jesus gives a parable of a vineyard.
Jesus is the vine, we are the branches, and God is the caretaker. He talked
about how it's not good enough to be in proximity to the vine - that does
nothing. You can't obtain nutrients when you are just around the vine - you
have to be connected. He talked about how once a branch has borne fruit, we
then have to let God purge the dead branches, because they are not allowing new
vines to grow so they can bear fruit. It is not enough for us to be in
proximity to the vine, we cannot be close to the vine, we have to be connected
to the vine. Don't look back on the past, what
could have been. Only look forward to what the Lord has in store for you. If
we look back, once we have changed not just our behavior, but rather our
nature, we are saying something like this: I
want all I had in the past, more than I have hope for in the future. Don't LOOK
BACK.
The gospel is change. It's eternal
change. Eternity is now. Don't wait. Become one with the Savior and your life
will change beyond your current comprehension - that is something I have seen
in myself. But I was not able to see it until I took the leap of faith. I can
only see it now, after I have in a sense jumped. During this new year, don't
just change your behavior, change your heart. Align yourself with God, and
change who you are.
I love you all so very much, and I
am so thankful for the many things I am blessed to learn on the mission.
With love,
- Elder Celaya
P.S. Transfers are on Wednesday
next week, and I am most likely going to be going out of Yonkers, so the next
time you hear from me, I will be in my new area. I find out Saturday where
I will be going. It is a bitter sweet feeling leaving an area.
Pics (1 January 2015)
Christmas Eve in Manhattan
Christmas with the Rodak Family!
Skyping my family!!
Thanks Eskanders for taking us to lunch!
Wednesday, December 24, 2014
Merry Christmas! FELIZ NAVIDAD! (24 December 2014)
Sorry for the lack of an email last
week. Last week I was sick and didn't have the energy to write an email. Elder
Nelson ended up catching the stomach flu and was throwing up a lot a couple of weeks
ago. Well, last week somehow I got it as well and was throwing up all night and
day Wednesday. Then my companion got it and then he was throwing up. And
then just when we thought everything was good, Elder Nelson somehow got it
again and was throwing up the entire next day. We call it the Yonkers Plague.
Nobody can figure out why so many people get sick here. Haha. Now we are all
alive and well, so do not worry. Being sick is no fun.
Brandon: It has been an interesting
ride with Brandon. Last time we talked, he was doing great. Things have
happened since then. Veronica (his girlfriend in the church) broke up with him
because she was going on a mission, and also his friends have been telling him
that ever since he has been meeting with us, he has been changing into to
"soft" person and they want the old tough Brandon back. Over the last
few weeks, each time we meet with him, he gives us less and less time. It's at
a point now where he cancels the lessons. We will see what happens. It is just
sad to see someone lose the eternal blessings of the gospel because he cares
more about what others think. I wish he could have more of an eternal
perspective. It doesn't matter what man thinks, if you know you are living your
life doing what God asks of you. Living according to what God asks of us is
ultimately the right thing to do, and you feel that in your heart. Because you
feel that, you never have to justify your actions because you already know they
are right and correct. I wish he could see this. Anyway, we are praying for him
and hoping he does choose to come back and continue to change. He knows the
gospel is true, he sees how it has been changing his life, yet because he is
afraid of what others think, he is choosing to deny himself those wonderful
blessings, and not accept it. He has so much potential. If only he could see
that in himself. Then again, I'm sure this is just how God feels about us as
well.
Roy: Roy is such an amazing one! I
am a little confused at times with him. He opened up to us and told us some
things that happened to him, and because of those things, it is as if he is
stuck mentally at the age those things took place in his life. Sometimes it is
hard to communicate with him, because it's as if we are talking to a little kid
in very large man's body. He keeps telling us of new kids he is finding out he
had, and he is constantly losing and obtaining new jobs. Over the past cycle it
has been difficult meeting with him, but we met with him twice this week, and
plan to do so in the following weeks. Yesterday we had a great lesson with him.
We taught about the priesthood, temples, and eternal families, and we asked him
how bad he was willing to work to get there one day. He said he really wants
it, and he feels like each time he prays and asks God if these things are true,
that he gets the feeling and the direct words in his head that say "you
already know this is true, you already know what you have to do." It's so
amazing to hear that, but he needs a little push. He doesn't commit very well
to things, but he told us yesterday that there is just something inside of him
telling him to go through with it. If only people could see the worth of the
gospel in their lives! His baptism date was December 21st, but unfortunately,
we had to cancel the date and move it back because we didn't feel as if he was
ready to make that step yet.
We have been doing a lot of less active
look-ups and a lot of tracting. We have spent most of our time in the bad areas
because that is where all the hispanic people are. Even though we spend every
day in those areas, each day it surprises me how bad some of these people live.
It is sad. Apparently, everyone who comes over to America from these Latin
countries automatically thinks New York City is the place to go, but they can't
afford it, so outside the city is the "next best place" and they end
up here all in tight quarters. They don't understand that there are a lot
better and cheaper places to live in America. I have grown to love some of the
people here, and I just wish I could take them out of their situations here and
show them how good life can be.
We have these events called APF's
where we get together with all the missionaries in our zone and do an area
proselyting event. For example, our last event we went caroling, handed out
free hot chocolate, gave away wrapped scriptures, and during that talked to all
the people who came through. We do one every week. Well last week during our
APF, I was on a split with Elder Hincapie, and we ran into an elderly lady who
was picking up her leaves. We ran over to her and asked her if we could help
her and she said she didn't need help, but we didn't listen and started to help
her anyways. We got talking with her and chatted with her for about 20 minutes.
We ended up showing her He Is the Gift, and let her meet the sister missionaries.
They then talked with her for a while, and now they are teaching her! It was a
tender miracle to see.
I love our Zone. Every day we grow
closer and they are all like my brothers and sisters now! You get to meet and
make so many amazing friends on the mission. Tonight we are going over
to one of our favorite family’s house for Christmas Eve, and tomorrow is
Christmas! I hope you all have a great week. I am going to the city today, and
we are going to go to the Rockefeller Center and Times Square and a few other
places. It should be pretty packed on Christmas Eve. We shall see. I'm very
excited. It is always so fun going to the city because you see so many new
things in such a little amount of time. South Manhattan is a very live place. I
love it.
Have a fantastic week and a
wonderful Christmas. Remember as you are opening your presents tomorrow,
who really is the gift. :)
With love,
Elder Celaya
Thursday, December 18, 2014
One Week Until Christmas! (17 December 2014)
These are the missionaries who were in my district in the MTC. We had a chance to meet up this week for a Christmas devotional and got to see each other again. Have a good week. Never give up.
D&C 123:17. This scripture has been my favorite this week. Super good.
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